Congratulations! If you’re reading this, it’s likely you’ve just got engaged – we couldn’t be happier for you. Saying “yes” to the one you love is one of life’s most precious moments. You deserve to revel in every second. Right now, you’re in that dreamy, newly engaged bubble but soon enough, you’ll have well-meaning friends and family asking about dates, venues, and plans. Planning a wedding is thrilling, yet it can be a touch overwhelming. That’s why we’re here to guide you through the first steps of this exciting journey. This will help you make decisions at your own pace while savouring this special time.
Celebrate Your Engagement!
First and foremost, take a moment (or several) to celebrate! Whether you pop a bottle of bubbly for the two of you or gather your nearest and dearest, don’t skip this part. Announcing that you’ve got engaged is one of those rare moments that brings everyone together in joy. Your loved ones will be thrilled to join in the excitement! Embrace it – celebrate your love, and let the joy of the occasion sink in. You will remember these moments forever.
Decide on Your Timeline
Once the celebrations have settled, it’s time to talk about the timeline. Sit down with your fiancé and discuss how long you’d like your engagement to be. The average engagement lasts between 12 and 18 months, but there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Some couples enjoy a long engagement while others jump straight in and plan within a few months. Think about what feels right for the stage of life you’re both in. It’s also wise to consider factors like work schedules, family obligations and personal priorities.
A longer engagement offers more time to secure the very best suppliers and venues, but if you’re flexible, shorter engagements can also be beautifully stress-free. If you have a dream venue in mind, check its availability, as that might influence your timeline. One thing you won’t have to worry about is seasonality if you’re envisioning romantic David Austin Roses for your wedding. Our roses are available year-round, so your blooms will be timeless no matter when you say “I do.”
Set a Budget
Once you have a rough timeline, the next step is setting a budget. This is perhaps the least glamorous part of getting engaged and wedding planning, but you will be glad this was established early on. Sit down together and have an open conversation about what feels comfortable. Having a general figure in mind will help guide all future decisions, from venue choices to guest lists. Your budget is the foundation, so setting realistic expectations now will save you from stress later. Remember, a beautiful day doesn’t have to break the bank. It’s all about thoughtful choices and prioritising what’s most meaningful to you both, beautiful bouquets and all!
This will be the first opportunity to think about your floral budget. The most common question couples ask is, “How many roses do I need?” Understanding rose quantities is crucial when deciding on the perfect floral design for your special day. From grand floral arches to elegant bouquets, knowing the number of stems required also ensures your budget is planned appropriately. We always recommend working with a floral designer, guaranteeing expert guidance at every step.
Find Inspiration
With the practicalities underway, it’s time to start dreaming! There’s a world of wedding inspiration waiting for you, so take some time to explore. Dive into Pinterest boards, wedding blogs, or follow a few Instagram accounts that resonate with your style. From modern elegance to colourful and fun, you’ll quickly discover what you’re drawn to. Following reputable wedding platforms can offer both stylish ideas and practical planning tips, helping you feel inspired and informed. And, of course, follow us on Instagram and Pinterest for the ultimate inspiration in wedding roses – they really are the most beautiful in the world.
Choose Your Wedding Party
One of the sweetest steps in your early planning is deciding who will be by your side through the planning and on the big day itself. You probably already knew who these cherished friends and family members were prior to your engagement, but making it official is incredibly special. Whether it’s your siblings or best friends, inviting them to be part of your wedding party is a heartfelt way to show them how much they mean to you. There’s no need to formalise every detail right away, but sharing this news with them can be a lovely moment, adding another layer of joy to your engagement.
Savour the Journey
Finally, remember that this is your time. Getting engaged is a fleeting, magical moment in life and it is easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of planning. As you begin this journey, take a step back and savour these moments. There will be time to dive into the finer details, but for now, let yourself be in the present and enjoy the newfound glow of being engaged.
Embarking on wedding planning is a beautiful chapter, and with the right steps and mindset, it can be as delightful as you’ve imagined. Here’s to a joyful engagement, filled with love, laughter, and a sprinkling of David Austin Wedding Roses.
